Client Testimonials

I never wanted to marry I knew it was not what i was meant to do yet due to family pressure, status I was young and given no choice. I married had children. The children are my joy yet my relationship was a disaster. I had no idea what to do. We were both desperately unhappy living separate lives. Attending mandatory family functions which we both hated. AJ was our saviour he helped us both to find our way whilst we are now not together we are now living separate lives.. our relationship remains strained mainly due to family constraints yet we are better parents because of it… he helped us become who we need to be for our children.. bless you.

If you want to kick start your journey to self care, go to one of Alan’s advice. It makes you stop and take time to think about where you want to go.

It all starts with happiness for me. When we take care of our mental health and wellbeing, we are able to be the very best version of ourselves in our private lives and our business and career. Thanks alot Alan!

The work I’ve done with Alan feels like it’s part of me in a way I don’t feel like I have gotten in work with other coaches.

I was struggling with so many things, my mother had recently passed away after a prolonged illness I had given all of my free time to be with her, look after her which I didn’t regret for a moment.. Yet once she had passed I felt lost, no interest in anything especially my partner and work… AJ helped me get myself back on track I feel more positive energetic and have a new lease of life.. I have great memories of my mom yet have lost that feeling of emptiness. I will be eternally grateful to you.

School is horrid, I feel ugly, I have no friends, mom is always on my case.. Never feel anything I do is good enough for any one. I am going to be a Doctor I Know I can do it, I have made new friends, mom is listening to me more it’s not perfect yet I know I am not ugly I work out now and feel I have more energy and people are noticing me… I could cry with thanks

I hate my life, my job I am going nowhere when my friends around me are getting promotions have partners I know I am not unattractive, I am fit yet why is nothing happening for me? OMG 6 sessions with this amazing human being I feel lighter happier than I have in years I am dating a nice man and I am going to change my job. I know I am not their yet I’ve made some changes in my life and I need to make more yet I am going to get there I can’t thank you enough for the help and support you have shown me in showing me the way,, always grateful.

I really didn’t enjoy my first few sessions with Alan James he had me questioning even the things that I thought were good in my life.. Reality of course is they weren’t he listened with such amazing skills I ended up opening up for the first time in my life, A weight lifted is an understatement I have been seeing him now for six months I feel he is a mentor, coach and I would say trusted friend even though we don’t socialise he never judges just seems to know what to say to keep me on track.